What Can Porn Do to Your Teen?
In today's day and age, the expression" Porn," may have completely lost all meaning. When we watch television, read magazines, or listen to the radio, we are bombarded with images of naked men and women engaging in explicit sexual acts. Although Porn has been around for quite some time, it has gained increasing notoriety over recent years due to increasing public awareness and increased censorship. Unfortunately, many people still see Porn as the harmless Pornographic artifacts it once was and continue to be confused about its effects on real life sexual pleasure.
Porn is just a form of visual Porn, which is created by people (usually corporations) for the sole purpose of advertising or selling a product to consumers. While it might seem exciting, Porn isn't reality and it can never have a beneficial effect on your sex lives. Sure, certain types of Porn can look like they're so realistic that you might believe that what you're watching is truly happening. But this is where the problem begins: seeing something so different in real life can cause you to view everything through a distorted lens-one that may actually make sex more painful than it needs to be.
For instance, you may have seen movies or websites that feature women masturbating with objects (such as toothbrushes, spatulas, or even tampons). These kinds of sites are often called "voyeurism," and this is exactly why they are so unrealistic. Although it is possible to have an orgasm without touching any sort of sexual tool, having an orgasm with the aid of something else (such as a vibrator or dildo) is not an easy thing to do. As a result, the orgasm portrayed in a Porn film is usually fairly shallow and brief-lasting only a few minutes at most.
Another problem with Porn is that it portrays "real sex" as something that only young adults should engage in. The fact is that young adults experience a lot of physical and emotional trauma before they become sexually active, and these effects can actually carry over to their sex lives. Young adults are going through a wide variety of emotional and physical changes before they can begin to have sex; therefore, they need adult materials that they can use to help them create a new adult relationship. Pornography does not teach young adults how to deal with these changes and conflicts in their lives, and as a result, they will try to use Porn as a means of escaping. This is a bad trend for young adults trying to develop healthy sexual relationships.
Finally, Porn is often produced by young people for young people. It's not very realistic if young people in the United States are producing free porn videos that feature old young porn videos engaging in all kinds of sexual acts. In most Porn films, the men and women are either too young or too inexperienced to participate in sexual intercourse. In reality, it takes years for young people to become sexually active; therefore, they cannot realistically expect to be depicted in Pornography performing sex acts on older people.
These are just a few examples of the problems with Pornography, and there are many more reasons why it is harmful. Because of this, it is vital that we provide our teenagers with sex education. Sex education should be considered a part of K through 12 education because it helps young people learn about healthy sex. Without such education, our children may be exposed to harmful forms of Pornography later on in life which can lead to unhealthy sexual relationships and behaviors.
Unfortunately, many high school and middle school students do not view Pornography in a positive manner; therefore, they may start considering it normal to view Porn actors in a sexual context. The truth is that most Porn actors are nothing like the characters in the movies, and they are usually quite attractive. Even though they are only portraying one aspect of real life, their actions should not be taken seriously. A Pornographic actor's real-life appearance should never be seen as a reflection of his or her performance.
It's also important to note that the female Porn actor in Vaughn's video does not achieve an orgasm. Instead, she is merely able to withstand the sexual stimulation that she receives. In this case, she proves that it is possible to receive a climax without ejaculating. The mainstream Porn industry may say that she was able to achieve an orgasm, but she says "I was just going through a Porno Porn scene."
Porn is just a form of visual Porn, which is created by people (usually corporations) for the sole purpose of advertising or selling a product to consumers. While it might seem exciting, Porn isn't reality and it can never have a beneficial effect on your sex lives. Sure, certain types of Porn can look like they're so realistic that you might believe that what you're watching is truly happening. But this is where the problem begins: seeing something so different in real life can cause you to view everything through a distorted lens-one that may actually make sex more painful than it needs to be.
For instance, you may have seen movies or websites that feature women masturbating with objects (such as toothbrushes, spatulas, or even tampons). These kinds of sites are often called "voyeurism," and this is exactly why they are so unrealistic. Although it is possible to have an orgasm without touching any sort of sexual tool, having an orgasm with the aid of something else (such as a vibrator or dildo) is not an easy thing to do. As a result, the orgasm portrayed in a Porn film is usually fairly shallow and brief-lasting only a few minutes at most.
Another problem with Porn is that it portrays "real sex" as something that only young adults should engage in. The fact is that young adults experience a lot of physical and emotional trauma before they become sexually active, and these effects can actually carry over to their sex lives. Young adults are going through a wide variety of emotional and physical changes before they can begin to have sex; therefore, they need adult materials that they can use to help them create a new adult relationship. Pornography does not teach young adults how to deal with these changes and conflicts in their lives, and as a result, they will try to use Porn as a means of escaping. This is a bad trend for young adults trying to develop healthy sexual relationships.
Finally, Porn is often produced by young people for young people. It's not very realistic if young people in the United States are producing free porn videos that feature old young porn videos engaging in all kinds of sexual acts. In most Porn films, the men and women are either too young or too inexperienced to participate in sexual intercourse. In reality, it takes years for young people to become sexually active; therefore, they cannot realistically expect to be depicted in Pornography performing sex acts on older people.
These are just a few examples of the problems with Pornography, and there are many more reasons why it is harmful. Because of this, it is vital that we provide our teenagers with sex education. Sex education should be considered a part of K through 12 education because it helps young people learn about healthy sex. Without such education, our children may be exposed to harmful forms of Pornography later on in life which can lead to unhealthy sexual relationships and behaviors.
Unfortunately, many high school and middle school students do not view Pornography in a positive manner; therefore, they may start considering it normal to view Porn actors in a sexual context. The truth is that most Porn actors are nothing like the characters in the movies, and they are usually quite attractive. Even though they are only portraying one aspect of real life, their actions should not be taken seriously. A Pornographic actor's real-life appearance should never be seen as a reflection of his or her performance.
It's also important to note that the female Porn actor in Vaughn's video does not achieve an orgasm. Instead, she is merely able to withstand the sexual stimulation that she receives. In this case, she proves that it is possible to receive a climax without ejaculating. The mainstream Porn industry may say that she was able to achieve an orgasm, but she says "I was just going through a Porno Porn scene."
